The Eye of the Beholder...

It is interesting to me, how perspective can color truth with such conviction as to seem infallible. The book by Stephen R. Covey, “The Divine Center,” effectively discusses this principle. When my own memory seems so clear and exact, it is sometimes difficult for me to accept that what seems so tangibly clear to me could be entirely wrong. I have been learning lately that I need to be more humble and be willing to deny the very thing my eyes are seeing. Not an easy thing, to be sure.

Even more difficult, is accepting that others are having the same difficulty… that the messages I give (verbally and non-verbally) can give an entirely different message than the one I am trying to express.

Gospel principles, scriptures, personal inspiration, introspection, frank discussion (tempered with tenderness and love), can help… but it is not easy. Everyone wants to be understood, to be cared for, and to find ways to serve or expand. The challenge is to put aside our own needs and feelings so we can try to really see things from the perspective of the other. Curiosity should take the place of defensiveness.

My constant prayer is to help me to forgive people who hurt me…immediately and completely… to fill my heart with love for them… to infuse my soul with the Light of Christ… and to be forgiven for my impatience or taking offense. I’m nowhere near perfect at this, and my heart breaks when I face my own weaknesses and shortcomings, especially if they hurt another person.

Some things that bring me joy and peace… and offer a short respite to my struggles… are enjoying beautiful nature, spending time with my grandchildren, making music with Dave, serving with him side by side, working hard to improve our home/yard, making and playing Native American flutes, learning gospel principles, and making gifts to surprise loved ones. I love to be included in the lives and hearts of people I care about.

I feel that when someone shares their deepest feelings, they have shared sacred ground with me… and I should treat that as holy.

I hope some of my ramblings helps you in some way. Thank you for reading.

My heart is full of love for you.

Lurlynn